If you are a bottom, you probably enjoy being beneath and under your lover-you want him to take the lead and guide you mercilessly into sex. So, it is important to identify roles and what you want in bed with your partner.
The more someone feels sexy and hot, the more they perform well in bed. There is no wonder why-this feeling boosts their egos and make them feel sexy and desirable, it makes them instantly horny. In sex, people tend to fantasize about someone craving and lusting after them.